My boyfriend ask me one day, why do some girls control their boyfriends as though that the boyfriend did a very bad things to them, but reality he wasn't cheating but he just want to have fun with their friends at times. I ask him why do you said that. Then he told me this 2 stories...
Case 1
Whom his girlfriend, rarely got to see each other because she is working in a far far very far away. So basically, whenever like weekends or after work, you dont expect him to stay at home all the time, right? Of course he will go out lepak at mamak stall with friends lepak or go to futsal games and etc, the girlfriend is not around. Whenever the girlfriend ask, what did you do just now? He said, Erm.. i was with my best buds lepak. Then she will get jealous.
Case 2
The boyfriend loves his friends so much, because all of his life he spends his time with them until he got coupled with his new girlfriend. But this girlfriend of his, loves to spend time more often with each other, when the boyfriend decided to lepak at mamak stall with his friends like for one night, Oh Well... The girlfriend got mad. She just hates when he wants to see his friends.
From My Point of View....
Why do girls get so upset and so jealous? The best thing to say is that 'We want him for Ourself'. The feeling of not trusting guys, of course.... this is because :
1. Cheating goes with Not Trusting.
Afraid if they lepak with their friends and of course no matter where, whether at futsal court, mamak stall or shopping centre, there will be other girls around. Guys can go cheating or play around. Girlfriend don't want that to happen.
2. Friends Encouragement goes with Not Trusting.
When they went out, talks bout everything, probably bout their relationship with the girlfriend. And probably they would give their opinion, sometimes friends opinion can be useful or it can be dreadful. Who knows the friends says, "Hey man!! Don't waste your time, there's a lot of fishes here." OH STOP.. Girlfriends dont want that to happen. Ouh No..
3. Perky or Hot girls goes with Not Trusting
Everybody have a pair of incredible eyes. God invented them for us to see the great and wonderful things out there, but you know guys right?? they would most probably use them to look other beautiful things in life, girls girls girls.. :D And you know girls nowadays, they dont care you're someone else wife or gf or fiance', all they know is to hit on the guys.
Well, well, well... There's a lot more things that can make us be jealous at times but all comes into not trusting. In relationship, we should be able to know, understand each other. Hence, guys will be guys, girl you need to know why the first place your boyfriend pick you as their soulmates. It must be the way you speak, your voice, your face or your attitude. My advice take that power thing you have and make use of it, to always attracts him. Don't be jealous or afraid when they go hanging out with the boys, give them a bit freedom. Let them do what they like to do, in return they will love you forever and ever. And, sometimes it can be that some guys don't see how deeply their girlfriend, fiance' or wife love them, JUST BE PATIENT GIRLS!!, (i know, patient is not a good word to put there, because me and myself hate that word too) if he's the one, he will be the one. If your relationship end one day, it means that ALLAH have a much more greater and better man for you. I know it is the end of the world, the population of girls are so much more higher than guys. But no worries ALLAH invented us to be as couples. Just be patient. If he dont loves you, then WHATEVER!! go and have fun, insyaALLAH you will be
HAPPY again!!...
