Marriage life after a month :)

Assalammualaikum wbt friends,

Hey friends im married now.. Alhamdulillah, just got married to a very nice husband 1 month ago..

Today,

Nadirah just want let out my opinions, might be from my feelings, might be just an idea..

It's about after marriage life..

Have you come across to when before you get married, someone or people would suddenly said, "Are you sure you are ready to get married?" might be asking twice or many times.. and you just go, "HUH!?" (in the head thinking, why ask such questions)

ALLAH SWT most merciful, most loving and ALLAH gave us so many stories in life. Throughout those path of life you learn, to be a much better person. We as humans would do tremendous wrongs in life. Things that ALLAH SWT hate, that ALLAH SWT forbid us to do, but we do it ouh so well because we are not aware of the consequences when ALLAH specifically written it in the Quran ouh so many times.

Yes i am a woman, whom just got up from all the wrong doings in the pasts. Who is not as perfect as Siti Aishah, Siti Khadijah, Maryam, Siti Fatimah, Aisyah and more islam woman. But i am trying to get up slowly in a fast pace of life, why i need to get up now?? it is because time waits for no woman, while the door of ALLAH forgiveness is still open, get up quickly and make a change to your life.

MasyaALLAH, i learn a lot after married, struggling to know your other half that quick is not as easy as we thought or as ABC. I admit, so many things i fail without realising, "OH, why do i do that?" where i come to a point it just hits me like a bulldozer crush me in the ground. "Why do this happen?" (i said to myself).

This afternoon, i went lunch with my girl friends. As i listen to their conversations, one by one come out about the story of a marriage life. I listen, trying to relate to their stories and advices with whatever i have encounter now. As i listen, last conversation i said, "Why didnt you guys tell me this are the things i have to prepare!!" But then my friend said, "because we don't hangout with married people that much, last time" Oh my goodness....

But to know what is marriage life is, you must be in the situation rather than listening about it.. Im trying to make myself as perfect as i can be for my husband. Im hoping trials after trials is just to make us much more stronger than as it is now... Let me say, marriage is not something you can play with, my advice is to get married with someone that really love as much more than we us girls do.. 

Perhaps, before you married, try testing our husband-to-be exactly, how, we really are... so that he will not get shocked to see us from another side of who we really are... so i dont think i have much to say here... just be prepared for those who are planning to get married.. Life gets difficult when nothing in the relationship are truthful and without love and care... 

Love,

Nadirah Mior

Wedding Jitters

Assalammualaikum wbt friends,

Hoooo yeah... wedding jitters.. it is not something to be proud of or you can say, 

'actually you're a human-being'..

Normal to have negative or positive feelings and it is normal to have anxiety sometimes..

(setan yang actually bermain with your feelings, get away goooo get away!!)

I always thought i am ready to be someone else's wife and ready to take that role and GO GREEN LIGHT... dah lama tau plan nak kahwin ni, since like way before finishing my degree studies.. So perasaan yang sangat CONFIDENT i can do it, has always been like alaaaa 'kacang goreng' 'small matter'.. yadaaa yadaaa...

Tetapi......... bila dah tinggal 1 bulan je nieh...... (confident level drop down)

For my case, i think i can list down more than top 5 feelings of just not complete yet.. 

MY TOTAL FREAKOUT nesssss!!!!

1. Body

(i feel like i have so many scars, how can i get rid of it, what if i have billions of dollars so i can do laser to buang all of it, why do i feel like i have so small breasts, will my husband likes it or not, why laaaa ada tummy, what will my husband reactions be when he SEES MY BODY???!!) 

2. TIME

(i feel like, do i have time to wash clothes when im married, will i get ready for my husbands meal, how bout his breakfast-lunch-dinner-supper, why do i have to go back home at 6pm or more, will my husband tolerate with my time, should i work?, how do i pay my debts and bills?, what if i don't have enough time and money, can i still ask my dad for help?!! how this and that)

3. COOKING

(i think i know how to cook, i feel like, will my husband likes my cooking, can i actually know what to cook that day, can i just go to the refrigerator and immediately know what to cook, easy and fast what to cook, do i need to get a cook book, can my husband teach me how to cook or can he help around..!?? How this and what is that)

4. FACE

(i feel like, WHY MUST I HAVE PIMPLES at the nearest time like this, will my husband kiss me with a yucky face like this, will he look at me and said 'you are beautiful just the way you are'??!! serious im out of KESERIAN.. hopefully i get that 'SERI' on my big day for my future husband)

5. SNOORING

(Really this one freaks me out, what if i snored the first day of we are together that first night, how can i covered it up??!!)

That is all heeee......
hoping that the marriage life would be GREAT insyaALLAH Aamin...

Mimpi Indah ~Alhamdulillah~

Assalammualaikum wbt,

Nadirah sihat alhamdulillah..

Nadirah dari hari ke hari ingin menulis semua perjalanan hidup dira, tetapi hari ni baru dira berkesempatan, sebab dah simpan simpan cerita ni dalam hati, hanya di sini dira dapat luahkan.

Alhamdulillah... mimpi ni pada dira sangat indah because this time, even if im driving and im sleepy, i can re-draw back the dream and terus tersenyum and nampak muka dia heeeeee member aku cakap, "kau ni angau laaaa dira"....

Mimpi malam jumaat, sebelum tidur, nadirah would basuh muka, basuh kaki dan selepas tu pakai lotion muka dan badan. Setelah siap tutup lampu, alihkan badan menghadap ke kanan, tangan kiri dan kanan letak bawah bantal tetapi kali ni aku berselawat ke atas Nabi Muhammad SAW dan sambil tu belek facebook, tetapi aku terpandang fb page si-Dia.. Aku buka photos, tak tawu kenapa, aku pun lalu membelek picture dia.. teringat masa permulaan berkenalan dahulu, display picture dia, dia pakai baju hitam.. setelah dalam belek dan mulut sentiasa berselawat, tiba tiba nadirah tertidur..

Didalam mimpi.....

Nadirah, pergi ke kedai costume bersama rakan rakan nak cari baju, seingat nadirah, pergi ke kedai tu untuk cari baju untuk office annual dinner, somehow kedai yang kami pergi it was a corner lot and meanwhile the fitting room dekat kedai belakang, jadi apabila dah pilih baju nak cuba kena ke kedai blakang untuk mencuba.. Nadirah, tak ingat langsung baju apa yang nadirah pilih, tetapi nadirah keluar dari kedai sebelah nak tunjuk member baju dress yang dira pakai tu kat member...

Lalu...

Nadirah pun keluar dari kedai belakang, sambil berjalan dira selalunya akan pandang bawah... tengah jalan lagi sikit nak sampai kedai nak tunjuk baju dress tu, tiba-tiba, itulah dia, nadirah nampak 'Aizol and Faris' depan kedai tengah tengok sesuatu.. and dira tengok sambil keliru, "Apsal Aizol pakai baju tu?" (it was, baju songket orang nak kawen warna putih lining biru muda pada songket) and tengok faris, "Apsal si-Faris pakai baju tu?" (baju melayu, tak ingat warna apa, lupa dah.. hehehe) then tiba-tiba, nadirah pandang diri sendiri, "Ekhhhhhh, apsal aku pakai baju ni?" (it was, baju songket kebaya, putih dengan lining biru pada songket).. Sebab konon nya rasa malu.... Takot Aizol marah and pelik, nadirah lariiiii ke across of the kedai ada shopping complex, and masuk and try nak keluarkan kepala skit, sebelum keluar ke sliding door shopping complex, dira pandang kiri kanan, lihat takde orang dira kenal, nak check kedai jual baju costume tu, ada Aizol lagi tak depan kedai tuh...

Lalu.....

Nadirah keluarkan kepala skit skit, dari pintu tu.. then keluar dari pintu and tengah diri depan shopping complex tu baru nak crossover tiba-tiba, Aizol datang ke dira.... and dia panggil, "Nadirah, dah siap?".... dira dengan muka terperanjat pandang dia and baju yang songket sama dengan Aizol.. and.... as he was going to say something.... TIBA TIBA!!!!!

TETT TETT TETT TETT TETT!!!! BUNYI JAM ALARM (Realiti) JAM 5AM...

Nadirah, bangun... padam jam alarm... SENYUM... and said, "ALHAMDULILLAH, Mimpi Indah Malam niehhhh" hahahahaaa... so macam mana... indah tak kawan-kawan rasa?

Semoga ia menjadi realiti, akan sampai ke ikatan yang 'SAH' insyaALLAH... AMIN AMIN AMIN...

Mimpi ni boleh buat dira sentiasa tersenyum... dira ingat muka dia dalam mimpi and everytime realiti, dira mengantuk atau rindu pada dia, dira akan teringat mimpi ni and ask ALLAH SWT to send him salam rindu from me.. hehehe kelakar tak?? ke sweet... hehehehe

LOVE,

Nadirah... (sentiasa tersenyum)

Thank you ALLAH SWT..

My 28th Birthday Story

Assalammualaikum WBT,

Today, nadirah nak cerita kisah hari kelahiran nadirah yang ke 28 tahun di dunia ciptaan ALLAH SWT ini.. Cerita bermula seminggu sebelum 14 februari 2014... Sebelum dira ke cerita dira, let me brief you on my birthdate.. 

Nama sebenar Nur Nadirah, i was born in Johor, Johor Bahru on the 14th February 1986, it was on Friday, i am the eldest in my family, mum was 26 years old when she have me.. i am the first daughter from Mior Shariffuddin and Mohaini Yusof.. Such a loving father and mother.. i am bless with two awesome parents.. Alhamdulillah...

(Nadirah dalam hidup have plan out, umur 26 tahun aku dah kahwen, tetapi that did not work out, jadi nadirah buat birthday 26 tahun seperti orang nak kawen, it was at the park of my house with cute theme, with lots of candy buffet, ada games, music, family and friends. I even hired photographers.. dira buat card invitation myself... i was single after a breakup from Gg)

(After 26 years old plan not workout, nadirah plan out, 14 february 2014 will be the best day.. hoping someone would melamar nadirah atau nadirah nikah on that day ke atau ada orang datang rumah.. hehehe)

I did du'a may ALLAH SWT bless my plans and hoping insyaALLAH it would plan out well.. Seperti ayat yang kita selalu dengar "We plan but ALLAH SWT is the best planner of all".. Only ALLAH SWT will know what's best for us... Only ALLAH SWT will grant us with the best plan of all..

10th February 2014 - 13 February 2014

Nadirah, was hoping untuk dia say something.. But i guess i waited for nothing and i was hoping for something but he just kept quiet.. So nadirah was a bit of devastated.. I always have faith in ALLAH SWT, so when i feel down that whole week of my coming birthday, i always pray and make du'a may ALLAH always keep me away from feeling so sad, because all i want was to feel happy and feel bless of all the things i have in life and be grateful to be born as a muslim.. So i tried to not think about it too much...Days and Days of that birth day coming up soon... I guess my 2nd plan for my life did not work out from what i expected.. (No Worries)

Luckily, i have bestfriends to accompany me, as soon as my friend balik from her honeymoon at cameron highlands, she straight away came to office and gives me a bouquet of flowers and strawberries.. i was so happy.. i got my first present.. 

14 February 2014

I Love this day... It was a bless Jumaat.. If you see 1986 calender, i was born the same day same moon.. Alhamdulillah i feel so grateful to be born on that day.. MasyaALLAH.. It was like my re born day.. Hari yang terbaik untuk berhijrah, bulan purnama.. SubhanaALLAH.. Nadirah pula dapat berpuasa hari ni.. Hari yang penuh dengan keberkatan, dira banyakkan berzikir, dan berdoa...

Woke up, sahur puasa sunat jumaat and bulan purnama then dira mandi, solat and siap... Pergi bilik mak and bak, and kiss and salam both and say I LOVE YOU mak and bak.. and head to office..

That day, everything was SWEET... i have sweetest birthday, I love my first birthday wish from him.. My heart pump up fast whenever he text me.. but because he was keeping so quiet the whole 2 weeks before my birthday, when suddenly he texted i felt like crying.. 

Selepas tu, member buat prank msg.. terus nadirah freak out.. terkejut member dira lari dari whatssap group after they said they want to " BALING TELUR AND TEPUNG" dah laaa nadirah pakai baju cantik nak celebrate birthday malam tu, tak bawak baju spare pun... hehehe kelaka sebab takot, nadirah terus keluar from the group.. then few minutes after that they add me back hahahha FUNNEYH laaa dorang... I love them..

Mell call, "Dira datang laa depan kejapp, kejappp jew" me, "tak nakkkkk!! nanti korang baling telor and tepung" Mell kata, "tak laaa dira, tu main main je, kejap je meh laaa" me, "OK!"

Aloolooolooo mel sweet jew, buatkan poster of me for my birthday.. Thank you Cayank Mel...

The whole day dekat office.. and everything went well.. 

Before balik keje, me and my best friends we had our photoshoots for my birthday..

Selepas pulang dari office, immediately i drove up to Setia City Mall, it was actually my second time to go there, but i just dont understand it why i can get lost sampai jumpe tempat sangat GELAP!! SORANG SORANG!! It was pretty scary tapi ALHAMDULILLAH nothing happen.. Sampai sahaja Mall aku baca "rabbi yaasir wala tu'assir, Rabbi tammin bil khair" tips untuk dapat parking... ALhamdulillah dapat parking and terus masuk mall pegi solat maghrib.. naseb baik sempat solat setelah lewat dengan traffic jam dan sesat..

Selepas solat maghrib.. nadirah ke Tony Roma's, bak belanja makan heeee :) How sweet...

Makan sedap laaa nampak nya, ALHAMDULILLAH, rezeki bersama keluarga itu yang penting, x kesah pun makan kat dimana-mana.. I love them...

Nadirah pulang ke rumah dengan perasaan bersyukur, walaupun impian dira tak tercapai seperti apa yang dira mahu, tapi dira tahu ALLAH SWT lagi mengetahui apa yang terbaik buat nadirah... dira selalu berfikir positive in life and always be grateful with everything.

Sepanjang bulan februari ini... nadirah bless with a lot of birthday wishes, life wishes, du'a wishes and presents.. 

1st : From Azuani - strawberris and bunga roses

2nd : From Shia - shawl LOVE LOVE LOVE pink color

3rd : From Mel - poster nadirah happy birthday

4th : From Hafiz - sunblock

5th : From Excard - voucher photobook 40% OFF

6th : From Mak and Bak - Tony Roma's Beef Ribs and thermos office

7th : From Nabihah - Shawl from Sugarscarf and Lunch together

8th : From Yaya - Handbag Pink

9th : From Faris - Birthday Card and orange Shawl

10th : From Aizol - Birthday Card, Key to his heart and silver necklace with a heart shape locket

11th : From Kak Siti - Glittering Turqoise Shawl

12th : From Abg Zamri, Kak Siti and kak Yusz - Birthday Cake and Food

LOVE IS IN THE AIR ON THE MONTH OF FEBRUARY

 

Thank you ALLAH SWT for blessing with this.. I WILL ALWAYS LOVE YOU ALLAH...

My du'a for this year was, to always be grateful will everything ALLAH SWT granted me with.. and hoping to get married this year.. insyaALLAH.. AMIN AMIN AMIN...