Hi babes and bobes (what?),
Hehehe... actually this article today is something that i've been thinking today, because of the break up event recently, so it has been playing in my tiny tiny mind inside of me.. what do guys actually afraid of?? when i ask this question, what i mean here is that what are they afraid from us girls? not that afraid of ghost or animals ke no no i mean from us perempuan... Apa yang buat lelaki takut pada perempuan.. (hah ni baru ayat betul sikit hehehehe)
I dont know about you babes and bobes out there thinking, but i have listed some of the things that might be the cause.
1. Too many girls out there in the WORLD TODAY...
Most probably, sebab mereka takut if tersalah pilih pasangan. Jadi mereka : "testing yang ini (alaaaa, tak ngam laa) testing lagiiiii.... (alaaaa, lagi laa tak ngam) amik balik laa yang pertama testing tadi...."Wow.... hati siapa yang sakit?? perempuan jugak... hehe.. Berapa banyak kali kita asyik nak jadi yang testing jer ni?? hehehe....
2. Too many girls with HIGHER INCOME..
Most probably they are afraid, they do like us and love us but..... "alamak gaji aku ni tak seberapa, macam mana nak pinang anak dara orang ni?? mampuih laa aku nak carik and korek duit, tu baru nak pinang, dah kahwin aku nak bagi dia makan apa pulak, boleh ke dia tinggal dengan aku kat bawah tanah rumah" hehehe
Hey, i thought when you get married bukan kita boleh saling kongsi ke?? takkan laa semua suami kena beli, isteri pun boleh tolong apa.. If u guys so afraid bout duet pinangan, why dont you ask them to be a bit reasonable (ikut kemampuan masing-masing). But if there's man out there who read this and you think your income is much higher than us right now, then i dont mean it is you.
3. Too many VERY INTELLIGENT woman..
"aku suka dia, lebih pandai, cerdik and waras.. and just love when she talks especially in english, but aku ni 1 tahap bawah sikit dari dia (education level tak sama), boleh ke aku buat dia bini, kalau dia pandai sangat pun tak boleh jugak, melawan aku pulak kang" Erm.... ok, i know our parents always says, "Kau nak cari suami/isteri, cari yang sama taraf (ei: education)". For me it doesn't really matters, as long as the man knows how to step up a notch than the woman and knows how to educate the woman to obey him, tak kesah laa if takde pelajaran pun.. But at least ada laa pelajaran dengan adab agama yerk kawan-kawan...!! jangan cari lelaki yang suka buat masalah.
There are actually a lot of causes not only "3", but what i've wrote here only the expression of what im dealing right now. Maybe different people have different thoughts on it. Okie maybe, it is to harsh to say about the 1st caused, saying that man cheating until they found the best one, because ALLAH is actually the One who decides, makes and creates our destiny. What we have experiencing is to make us more tougher, make us be more mature, and more independent. Just take it as a task that we need to learn from it. Don't be depressed over a break up. Another think i learn, when you fall in love, always remember, ALLAH is always the first.. Adapt some of our Islamic manners in your relationship, don't be too easy going or men will take advantage on us because woman can be weak easily. I hope non women got to face what im facing right now, eventhough i want that but mostly all woman face it anyways. Just trust yourself, build up confident and love yourself too...
I love all my dearest girls (friends and cousins)...
xoxo....
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