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Hello Friends...
It has been a while since after the incident where i cancel my previous blog account...
i have't put any of my words in here...
i know people came here but did not say anything...
or maybe there has been nobody entering it...
i know it is my fault I'm sorry...
Oh well, today i am going to talk about Love...
What you know about love? and what i know about love?? hurmmmmm...
I have heard a lot of love story. And recent story was just the same as what i have been going through. There was a friend ask me, "Do you know how to differentiate love and affection?" Or whereas in Malaysia we call it as 'sayang' and 'cinta'?" Oh then i said, "No, why?" oh well, he said,
"Cinta itu hanya akan ada bile kita sayang pada pasangannya selepas itu berputik la
percintaan, tetapi bila cinta itu putus, tiada lagi istilah percintaan tetapi hanya yang
ada sayang".
Yes, this is what he said to me. He said, dont you ever look back, the past let it be, let the past goes by, because to have love in relationship, there is only once never twice, if twice it must be a second chances. That is all that matters no third chances or fourth chances that is wrong. If the guy/girl do make a problem during 3rd chances meaning they who have problem. They are the ones that cause the relationship to be like this.
He told me, " jangan you fikir if you give them second chances akan kembali balik rasa cinta, kerana perasaan itu dah tidak ada sebenarnya kecuali perasaan sayang sahaja!!" In order to seek real love again, you need to move on and find someone new. Bila kite jumpe orang baru, then kita akan dapat merasai cinta sebenar kembali. The LOVE will starts again... What i have notice is that, sometimes when we too in love with the other person, we are afraid to loose them which makes us to never forget these people. Moreover, people are afraid of what will come in the future. They are afraid to be love again because of the problem that occurs in their past. They feel as if, will there be another love? will the same thing happen to them again? will other guy/girl accept them? Basically they are afraid of what they will face in the future. Which is wrong for us to even think or feel that way.
I have learn a lot from what i have gone through with my previous relationship. I know i did not do anything wrong, because the relationship were never that sour. It was not my fault, as what i thought it was. I have made a mistake to still care for him even if he is married. Now, i am ready to face my future and i am accepting a new love life. For him, he still texted me. Because he still feels that he is guilty in all that have done in our relatonship. He knows he had made a mistake but it is all tooo late.. He is married but not happily married because the feeling of guilt. I am sorry to the wife but i will always remember whatever happens in my past is close and i am opening a new chapter. I dont want to be call as taking other peoples man. I want him to accept the wife and be happy with her and the baby she is carrying in her womb.
I hope people who reads this will try and think again. People who have the same problem as mine would try to think, if they go on will it be the same again. God have plans for us. The past need to be forgotten. Always remember GOD, because the best love of all in the world is to Love God.. I am thankful to have learn all this because now i am sharing it with my friends. Thank you ALLAH, Amin....
Ps: Hi friends, if you have experience this and want to share it please send a comment or send me an email. If You have questions do drop by at the chat box... Thank you for supporting me. I love you all Bye.. Salam..
