Are you that GUY!!??

How to find the right guy???

find a guy who calls you beautiful instead of hot...

who calls you back when you hang up on him...

who will lie under the stars and listen to your heartbeat...

will stay awake just to watch you sleep...

wait for the boy who kisses your forehead...

who wants to show you off to the world when you are in sweats...

who holds your hand in front of his friends...

who thinks you're just as pretty without makeup on...

One who is constantly reminding you of how much he cares and how lucky he is to have you....

The one who turns to his friends and says, "that's her" ....

He's Just Not That Into You Movie

Recently, i watched this movie called "he's just not that into you". Foremost, this movie is very good in giving information and advices to girls out there especially in order to find real guy that loves you or really like you. Well, it does relates to me a lot. I have experience love since i was 15 years old and from there it did not stop. From one guy to another. But to find a real love that was the hardest. My first real love happens when i was 19 years old. But before i was with this true love guy, i was the kind of girl that always dated with guys and the next day i will wait on the phone, hoping that the guy would call me.. If he does not call me, i will call him and it ends up my dad to scold me because of the phone bills i made was up to RM1000.. i was crazy, eager to have love and be love by a guy.. Which now i think it is so stupid to do that, i guess i have learn my lessons from all of my mistakes. My advice, if he did not call, don't hesitate to throw away the phone number because it means that HE'S JUST THAT INTO YOU.. hehehehe i hate the part whenever i went for dates, i would be the kind that talks a lot and the other person would just sit there and listen and when i ask questions he will just say one word and i ask again one answer again.. OMG.. guys if he is like that meaning HE'S JUST NOT THAT INTO YOU.. hish this movie really shows and relate what true life is (i hope the guys wont be mad for me saying this) :)

Luckily, i have also met guys that give some feedbacks after a date. hehe.. But to gain back love is not that easy. So because of that i have to go with the flow and get to know them first, to have a real relationship that you want to last forever does not need to always be in a hurry. If we were meant to be together, for million years in love also never fades hehehe *yeah right* If were meant to be together, dont worry you will get married soon. So take it easy.. GOD have plans for us.. Here is a trick if the relationship kinda sour, like i said if he comes back to you then meaning you were meant to be together, (i think i kept saying the same word here hehehe) so you girls have to make it sweeter again. Then the relationship became more balance with *sweet and sour* hahaha... Give a credit to the guy cause he came back because he knows he hate losing you. ok i am blabbing too much..

But wait....

How bout guys that are called as jerks.. why do i say this, because sometimes girls you need to be careful.. There are guys who wants us, just because they want to take advantage of us. You have to be tough and think wisely on every actions. Dont be too weak, if he tries to do stupid and yucky things to you on the first date. He just want XXX babes... (18sx) hehe ok i think that's all from me for now.. i will keep updates ok.. i'll try and find out best tips for girls okie.. hehehe for guys.. probably maybe hehehehe... (if you have the chance go and watch this movie above here, you might learn a lot about relationships here)

xoxo (muah)

Are You The One.. Husband To Be

ARE U THAT GUY??

Are you my Super Man!!??

oh well every girl have their own likes in a guy they wanted...

so basically '10' criteria in a guy that i wanted are..................

1. loves graphic arts and loves photography

2. i want older and taller guys because i like tall and matured guys... (what i mean old is about 2 to 6 years older than me)

3. loves to eat (all sorts of cuisines like asian, western and so on) but at the same time have nice figure... hehehe (nice figure meaning not like a model figure but just nice to see)

4. can speak fluently in bahasa melayu and english

5. loves me for who i am

6. romantic (i mean do something that i wont expecting and no need to be expensive as long as i am happy)

7. really honest in everything and loves to talk

8. not sooo serious at times so that we can share laughter all the time hehehe...

9. someone that i feel safe to be with.. so i can cuddled and be pampered with hehehe....

10. easy to with my family and friends.. and have future planning haha...

GirlFriends

We are not lesbians.....

oh well this time my short story is about me and my friend nurul..

we have been friends since we were both in high school girls in batu pahat... both were actually been schooling since primary school at Sek Keb Convent Batu Pahat.. both were being brought up in a very middle income family...

it was different in sekolah rendah because we were not friends, which by meaning i was the prefects (pengawas sekolah) and nurul was like an any ordinary girls... we were not geng at that time.. and i always jaga kelas nurul...

it was funny.....

nurul was sooooo skinny at school and i was sooooo tall at that time (tinggi awal sangat) hahaha.... i always make fun of dear nurul mengumpat with my friends about how skinny she was... but really un expected that we could be friends, which were very closes friends in high school.. we have almost a lot of likes for example we have this pink colored bulu-bulu pencil case.. we love fashions, loves hiphop like crazy, we were like crazy almost of the time and also lazy gile, do sometimes opposite of w hat school forbided like the radio and our handphone hehehee.....but at the same time baik jugak at school sometimes la.... we were like the middle of good and bad among our classmates and our gengs.. hehehe

I am sorry girl that i tease you at primiry school the old days....

time grew us apart after form 3 because i w as sent to another semi-bording school at temenggong ibrahim girl school by my parents because they were moving to kuala lumpur and dont want me to follow ask for me to finish my SPM at Batu Pahat, but nonetheless me and nurul were still friends eventhough nurul develop other side of friends and i develop my side of friends.. how ever every weekend i would most probably spend time with nurul...

why is my title w e are not lesbians...

there was a time.. both spends soooo much time together, go shopping together, buy the same outfits together, love to share everything together, went to same tuition place and alw ays meet up on weekends hehehe, which suddenly makes nurul's mum says... "korang nieh dah macam lesbian la, aunty tengok korang ni asyik melekat je, mcm love birds", automatically we said, "oh noooooooooo aunty!!!" hehehee we just laugh and laugh and look at each other with grinning faces, definitely we were not, we even secretly have boyfriends at that time... hehe

those old days... i think me and nurul spends so much time together even now our faith have runs the same.. both of us grew more chubbier and prettier hehe, w e w ere both got dump by a guy after coupled for long years, we have the same issues of love and sort of going through w ith life just as the same... hurmmm....

life is hard for us... but w e love our friendship so much...

i friends w ith nurul's friends and nurul friend's w ith my friends...

so we connected the whole FRIENDS ZONE....

hope our relationship as BEST GIRLFRIENDS FOREVER will never ends....

because we are truely girlsfriends...

to nurul.. lova ya girl... thanks for being my friend...

thanks people for reading it...

Ps- love your friends... help them, guide them and be there for them... because having friends are more worth it than having that special guy/girl... k thats all from me..

XOXO

nadirah

Love Story

Hello Friends...

It has been a while since after the incident where i cancel my previous blog account...

i have't put any of my words in here...

i know people came here but did not say anything...

or maybe there has been nobody entering it...

i know it is my fault I'm sorry...

Oh well, today i am going to talk about Love...

What you know about love? and what i know about love?? hurmmmmm...

I have heard a lot of love story. And recent story was just the same as what i have been going through. There was a friend ask me, "Do you know how to differentiate love and affection?" Or whereas in Malaysia we call it as 'sayang' and 'cinta'?" Oh then i said, "No, why?" oh well, he said,

"Cinta itu hanya akan ada bile kita sayang pada pasangannya selepas itu berputik la

percintaan, tetapi bila cinta itu putus, tiada lagi istilah percintaan tetapi hanya yang

ada sayang".

Yes, this is what he said to me. He said, dont you ever look back, the past let it be, let the past goes by, because to have love in relationship, there is only once never twice, if twice it must be a second chances. That is all that matters no third chances or fourth chances that is wrong. If the guy/girl do make a problem during 3rd chances meaning they who have problem. They are the ones that cause the relationship to be like this.

He told me, " jangan you fikir if you give them second chances akan kembali balik rasa cinta, kerana perasaan itu dah tidak ada sebenarnya kecuali perasaan sayang sahaja!!" In order to seek real love again, you need to move on and find someone new. Bila kite jumpe orang baru, then kita akan dapat merasai cinta sebenar kembali. The LOVE will starts again... What i have notice is that, sometimes when we too in love with the other person, we are afraid to loose them which makes us to never forget these people. Moreover, people are afraid of what will come in the future. They are afraid to be love again because of the problem that occurs in their past. They feel as if, will there be another love? will the same thing happen to them again? will other guy/girl accept them? Basically they are afraid of what they will face in the future. Which is wrong for us to even think or feel that way.

I have learn a lot from what i have gone through with my previous relationship. I know i did not do anything wrong, because the relationship were never that sour. It was not my fault, as what i thought it was. I have made a mistake to still care for him even if he is married. Now, i am ready to face my future and i am accepting a new love life. For him, he still texted me. Because he still feels that he is guilty in all that have done in our relatonship. He knows he had made a mistake but it is all tooo late.. He is married but not happily married because the feeling of guilt. I am sorry to the wife but i will always remember whatever happens in my past is close and i am opening a new chapter. I dont want to be call as taking other peoples man. I want him to accept the wife and be happy with her and the baby she is carrying in her womb.

I hope people who reads this will try and think again. People who have the same problem as mine would try to think, if they go on will it be the same again. God have plans for us. The past need to be forgotten. Always remember GOD, because the best love of all in the world is to Love God.. I am thankful to have learn all this because now i am sharing it with my friends. Thank you ALLAH, Amin....

Ps: Hi friends, if you have experience this and want to share it please send a comment or send me an email. If You have questions do drop by at the chat box... Thank you for supporting me. I love you all Bye.. Salam..